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雑談が苦手じゃなくなるコツ

雑談が苦手じゃなくなるコツ

最近雑談力という言葉をよく耳にするようになってきた気がします。よく相手の話を聞くこととか気持ち笑顔になどテクニック的なことが多いですが私の考えるコツは「相手を知りたい」と思う気持ちだと思っています。

例えば働く現場が変わり、新しく出会う人達と一緒に仕事をするとなった時、私は一緒に働く人がどういう人なのかとても気になります。エンジニアであれば「どういう経験を積んできたのか」「得意な言語は」「最近気になっている技術」など当たり障りがないものから始まり、ちょっと話すようになってくると「学校は情報系だったのか」「趣味」など突っ込んだことも聞きたくなります。技術屋としては相手がどのようなスキルを持っていてプログラミングが好きかなどは気になります。よくある天気の話なんてしている暇はなかったりします。

雑談というよりは仕事の延長のような話になってしまいますが、実際に仕事の延長なのでいいと思います。逆に趣味の話だとアニメとかが好きな人も多く、この辺の話題はあまり自分から語りたがらない人も多いので仕事の延長話をするほうがお互いいいのかもしれませんね。

 

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